Topics that make guys go crazy....
Girls,
I wanna share with you some important tips here okay. I know it might hurts because this is the things that we like to talk about, but trust me, if you just start dating or been in relationship for 1000 years, these topics still make guys gag or go ‘what the hell?!’
1) Celebrity gossip- most guys don’t give a damn about Jennifer Lopez dating different kind of guys each time her album was about to launch, or what is Angelina Jolie’s new child’s name… or anyone else in Hollywood. No matter how big of a scandal has just erupted in their lives or how heartbroken or how bulimic they may be. In fact, a man is likely to be suspicious why you care so much – and why you consider yourself on a first-name basis with people you never met!
2) Shoes – I swear to god they never bothered any talk include cute shoes, flowery shoes, shoes you gotta have, shoes that cost half of your paycheck, shoes you regret not buying today at the mall, shoes you bought but you shouldn’t have, shoes that kill your feet and also, shoes that other women are wearing.
3) Catty gossip about your friends – it maker them think seriously question what kind of person you are. The last thing u wanna look like is some Kepoh Auntie right? So, don’t!
4) Anything involving below-the-belt functions or problems – that would include bloating, cramps, menstrual flow, discharge, itchiness, soreness and yes, gas. Please ladies, I know relationship should be giving and taking. But please don’t give this kind of information. It will freak them really bad….
5) Your weight, your ‘fatness’, your cottage cheese or your dieting plan.
6) Old boyfriend. – including just casual reference – like places you’ve been together or what kind of rim he put on his tires. They will not appreciate that. Trust me.
7) People you know peripherally – you know… like the girl who skipping class 5 times a week, or that fellow in your department at work who’s already called in sick seven days this year, or the lady who change her designer bags every alternate months. Yeah… they don’t really care.
8) What the two of you are experiencing right now – Women love to capture the moment with words. We’ll make remarks like ‘I’m so happy right now, aren’t you?’ or ‘isn’t this music great?’ Guys prefer to experience the moment – without having to hear a play-by-play of it.
Shit! After reading that, you realize, what can actually you talk to your boyfriends or guy friends? To be safe, just talk about general stuff. The current issues (it will make you look brainy!), sports issues (it will make you look cool!!!) or maybe about cars (not me because I have no idea about cars….)
If you wanna talk about all the above, talk to your girlfriends!
Ha……. That’s why you have girlosophee…… you can talk to us…… yeay!
I wanna share with you some important tips here okay. I know it might hurts because this is the things that we like to talk about, but trust me, if you just start dating or been in relationship for 1000 years, these topics still make guys gag or go ‘what the hell?!’
1) Celebrity gossip- most guys don’t give a damn about Jennifer Lopez dating different kind of guys each time her album was about to launch, or what is Angelina Jolie’s new child’s name… or anyone else in Hollywood. No matter how big of a scandal has just erupted in their lives or how heartbroken or how bulimic they may be. In fact, a man is likely to be suspicious why you care so much – and why you consider yourself on a first-name basis with people you never met!
2) Shoes – I swear to god they never bothered any talk include cute shoes, flowery shoes, shoes you gotta have, shoes that cost half of your paycheck, shoes you regret not buying today at the mall, shoes you bought but you shouldn’t have, shoes that kill your feet and also, shoes that other women are wearing.
3) Catty gossip about your friends – it maker them think seriously question what kind of person you are. The last thing u wanna look like is some Kepoh Auntie right? So, don’t!
4) Anything involving below-the-belt functions or problems – that would include bloating, cramps, menstrual flow, discharge, itchiness, soreness and yes, gas. Please ladies, I know relationship should be giving and taking. But please don’t give this kind of information. It will freak them really bad….
5) Your weight, your ‘fatness’, your cottage cheese or your dieting plan.
6) Old boyfriend. – including just casual reference – like places you’ve been together or what kind of rim he put on his tires. They will not appreciate that. Trust me.
7) People you know peripherally – you know… like the girl who skipping class 5 times a week, or that fellow in your department at work who’s already called in sick seven days this year, or the lady who change her designer bags every alternate months. Yeah… they don’t really care.
8) What the two of you are experiencing right now – Women love to capture the moment with words. We’ll make remarks like ‘I’m so happy right now, aren’t you?’ or ‘isn’t this music great?’ Guys prefer to experience the moment – without having to hear a play-by-play of it.
Shit! After reading that, you realize, what can actually you talk to your boyfriends or guy friends? To be safe, just talk about general stuff. The current issues (it will make you look brainy!), sports issues (it will make you look cool!!!) or maybe about cars (not me because I have no idea about cars….)
If you wanna talk about all the above, talk to your girlfriends!
Ha……. That’s why you have girlosophee…… you can talk to us…… yeay!
